It's time to thrive in your love & sex life.

Limited time offer: Claim access to my powerful online sexual healing course for 75% off now before we retire it permanently.


Level-up your intimacy with my offerings:


Monthly mini-courses, partner practices, group coaching, live events and a supportive community forum for shame-free sex & relationships.


Online Course

To overcome conflict and mismatched desires in your relationship, claim access to my transformational course for 75% off before we retire it permanently!



Book a 30-minute call with Janel for private support and to explore a multi-session coaching journey. Individuals or partners welcome.


"Janel's openness and non-judgmental mentality made us each feel incredibly validated and comfortable sharing our feelings. She helped us understand each other in such a deeper way. We feel closer and better equipped to navigate difficult times in our marriage. It's a complete night and day difference!"

- Devin & Jo R.

What kind of relationship do YOU want?

Love isn't one-size-fits-all. Find out if a traditional relationship fits you best at this stage of your life or if you are craving something more open.


Meet Your Coach

Janel Vitale



I'm a sexual & relationship empowerment expert.

My passion is empowering people to "unlearn" outdated myths about sex & relationships, gain powerful communication tools for deeper intimacy and create more authentic relationships. I help people transform fear, jealousy and insecurity into more fulfilling connection and pleasure. 

I became a coach because of my own shame journey.

After 14 years of Catholic school, I thought something was wrong with my sexual desires. On a quest of discovery, I traveled the world as a cruise ship singer, lived on open-minded communes, experimented with polyamory, took 400 hours of relationship coaching trainings and even hiked 5,000 miles across the US. Along the way, I faced my fears, practiced self-compassion, learned to talk about my needs & desires without shame and co-created the intimate relationship of my dreams. Learn more >

Influencing a sex-positive generation.

With over a quarter million followers on TikTok alone, I'm honored to help people around the world create shame-free intimate relationships.

Get my free guide for writing your own relationship rules.

Social norms are rapidly changing, which makes navigating modern intimacy confusing. It's up to partners to negotiate their own relationship agreements these days. Challenging, yes, but also freeing & fulfilling! Start designing your intimate life around your needs, desires and values with this thought-provoking guide.


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Become a member of my open-minded, sex-positive membership community to free your relationships from shame, confusion and resentment. Whether you're single or partnered, now is the time to invest in your growth and create a new road map towards the authentic, thriving intimate life you crave.

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