"Janel's openness and non-judgmental mentality made us each feel incredibly validated and comfortable sharing our feelings. She helped us understand each other in such a deeper way. We feel closer and better equipped to navigate difficult times in our marriage. It's a complete night and day difference!"
Love isn't one-size-fits-all. Find out if a traditional relationship fits you best at this stage of your life or if you are craving something more customized.
My passion is empowering partners—even those with seemingly different desires—to design a thriving intimate life. My methodology is a mind/body approach to Relationship Design: the concept that you can create customized relationships that truly fit you.
After 14 years of Catholic school, I thought something was wrong with my sexuality. On a quest of self-discovery, I traveled the world as a cruise ship singer, lived on communes, experimented with polyamory, took 400 hours of relationship coaching trainings and hiked 5,000 miles across the US. Along the way, I faced my fears, practiced self-compassion, learned to talk about my needs and desires without shame and co-created a thriving partnership. Learn more about me >
"Working with Janel is life-changing. Our sessions were deeply moving. We had conversations about things we'd never shared before. Every couple should have this experience."
Social norms are rapidly changing, which makes navigating modern intimacy confusing. It's up to partners to negotiate their own relationship agreements these days. Challenging, yes, but also freeing & fulfilling! Create your intimate life around each of your needs, desires and values with this thought-provoking guide.
"Janel saved our relationship. We finally feel confident telling each other about our needs, desires and boundaries. Working with her is one of the best decisions we've ever made."
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